PROFILE: John Jacobson, the "Double Dream Hands Guy"

John Jacobson is someone who is not just passionate about teaching but the joy that comes from learning. For many, however, they have gotten to know him as the "Double Dream Hands Guy" thanks to a video posted on Youtube that has become a viral sensation with over 6 million hits. (Even Justin Bieber has gotten in on the action, creating a viral hit with over 1 million hits itself!)

In an interview on Conversations LIVE John told host Cyrus Webb that it has been a great journey for him to have so much attention given to this one video when he has been doing this type of dance instruction for over 30 years. Jacobson has been working with young people and music teachers around the country to use music and movement to teach life skills. One kid took one of his videos and posted it on Youtube, and the rest is history.

It is obvious to see that this is one individual who realizes the importance of the public platform he has been given. Though marketing and branding has taken the "Double Dream Hands Guy" fame to a level John could not have imagined, it has also opened him up to a different audience and given more attention to the joy of music and the importance of living life with a smile.

Another project that John has done is share his inspirational message about life and living in a book called A PLACE IN THE CHOIR where he is able to use lessons he has picked up on to help others understand their own worth. He says it is as a result of meeting some of the youth and music teachers around the country that the book came about. He says that the book shows through their stories that he is able to show that just like a school choir is a place for people of all walks of life to come together in unity so is the world that we live in. "There are no bench warmers in the choir. Everybody has a place," he says. "Everybody's contribution is equally valued if we truly are going to have a harmonious world."

John wants to use beautiful music to make beautiful children, and he encourages all of us to do the same. Find out more information about how he is making the world a better place through music and dance at www.doubledreamhandsdance.com.

Constance Dunn's PRACTICAL GLAMOUR Encourages Looking Great From The Inside Out

Practical Glamour is for the female who wants to look and feel gorgeous and confident each day. Cultivate your optimum level of everyday glamour with this ultimate grooming, style and manner resource.

Your mindset and not your budget is the key to lifting your look to its maximum level. And your appearance is a package deal, which includes looks and attire alongside movement, style and spirit.

No matter how perfectly pulled together and lovely you may look,without proper poise and attitude, no presentation can be complete.

Practical Glamour is your enduring guide to the essentials and the lesser-known ins and outs of presenting your most beautiful, polished and authentic self to the world.

REVIEW FROM CONVERSATIONS BOOK CLUB

Today's society puts a great deal of attention on how we look and what should look good to you. Author Constance Dunn takes another direction in her book PRACTICAL GLAMOUR and helps us to to decide who we are and what we want to present about ourselves to the world.

The book is geared towards women, and I get that; however, men are also being pulled in different directions by advertisement and the nagging voices around us so we can learn a few things from Dunn as well. The first thing I picked up on was the importance of realizing that in many ways your body is a blank canvas. You can decide to paint it using the standard of beauty set by others or you can decide for yourself what is right for you and your body type. Dunn shows us that we should give thought to what we see as our own best qualities and find ways to enhance these while distracting attention away from those that we see as less flattering.

This book is not just about blind advice. The author includes examples of herself an others that she has come in contact with in order to make the points that she is discussing. For me I think one of the best things about the book is that it comes across as a conversation with the reader. It gets you to think about yourself, your style presently and how you can adjust it to be the best you possible.

The book is also about the importance of your inner beauty or truth. How does who you are within translate into what people see? That to me is one of the greatest points of the book.

PRACTICAL GLAMOUR will be seen as a go-to book for women and a reminder for men about how important it is to let your personal best come through each and every day.

Model Citizen: Lauren Eichhorn

Model Citizen: Lauren Eichhorn

Hometown: Daytona Beach, FL

Interests: Writing/Swimming/Dancing/Anything fun and active/Traveling

Lauren in here own words:
"Although I've just started out, I feel that I am a great fit for the industry. I know it's tough out there, but if I can make it, I can definitely show other girls out there that they can make it too. And that's what I aim to do. I am just a regular girl, you know? I am someone's daughter, someone's older sister, I am a friend and a student. Being a model would give me the chance to be a "role" model of sorts. I would like to put out an image that anyone can be someone to look up to. I am friendly and hardworking and would love a chance to pursue a career in the industry (even if it's just a career on the side). I find modeling exciting and fun! It's an opportunity to try new things and meet new people, and that's what I am all about!

"I think I've always been interested in modeling on some level. I remember getting all glammed up with my younger sister back in middle school and taking pictures of each other. I think it made us more confident and we had so much fun! I just remember thinking, "I could do this for a living, you know? How hard can it be? We're doing it right now after all."


How do you keep yourself motivated?
"I keep myself motivated by having fun. I try not to take rejection too personally. I realized that if I like something enough, I shouldn't give up. Let me tell you, having two jobs that aren't all that glamorous (one as a fry cook and the other as a smoothie maker) really keeps me looking for modeling jobs on the side. So far, I haven't had much luck, but opportunities are everywhere! Right time, right place, you know? And like I said, I don't intend to give up."

MODEL CITIZEN: Mathurin Owona

Model Citizen: Mathurin Owona 

Hometown: Yaounde( Cameroon) 

Currently living in Washington D. C.

Mathurin in his own words:

"As a fashion model, my interests are very detailed. I always want to become a super model. In the same industry I want to act and be in commercials. Fashion is one of my natural gifts therefore I want to be exposed and showcase my talents to the world. I decided to do this as a profession because I first enjoy doing it and also to show people the importance of fashion."

What keep me motivated as I pursue my goals and dreams?
"I want to be successful to live a better life;and I always want to be part of those who are making this world a better place not only for me and other now but for future generations as well."


What advice would you share with anyone looking to pursue their own dreams?
"The advice I can give to those who are looking to make their mark by pursuing their dreams are : You have power if you have the desire. Your dreams and goals can come true if you have the desire and the courage to face all the challenges while pursuing them. Always believe in yourself knowing deep in your heart that you can do whatever you set out to do. Never listen to those who said you were not good or good enough because you're. Commit yourself to always move forward everything and anything is possible good luck."

Find out more information about Mathurin at www.facebook.com/mathurin.petit.

NICOYE BANKS: Acting on Faith

by Cyrus Webb

When I interviewed Nicoye Banks this year for Conversations Magazine it had been almost 2 years since we last spoke to each other. At the time he was enjoying the fact that two movies he was involved in: Brooklyn's Finest" (co-starring  Wesley Snipes, Richard Gere, Don Cheadle and Ethan Hawk) as well as "Green Zone" (co-starring Matt Damon) had released at the box office.

"I feel immensely blessed to be able to say that I had 2 films debuting in movie theatres a week apart from each other," Nicoye told me at the time. "That is an actor's dream."

Pursuing his own dreams and goals is not the only thing that the talented actor and model is doing everyday. When not working with movies, television, stage plays and family, Nicoye devotes his time to helping and empowering his community, as one of the founding members of the artist collective group called "The Standard", where he serves as Creative Director. Their mission is to serve as a source of inspiration and support and provide a space for individual exploration and discovery nourished by a collective commitment to growth as an artistic community.

As he was promoting his latest project WOMAN THOU ART LOOSED: On The 7th Day, Nicoye took time out of his busy schedule to talk with Conversations about his journey and how he remains focused.


Nicoye, first congrats on your continual success and the new movie WOMEN THOU ART LOOSED. If I had told you ten years ago that you would be enjoying such acclaim, would you have believed it?
Yes, I would have believed your statement! From your mouth into the universe, to God's ears, it shall be so.

What has kept you focused on your dream of being successful in the entertainment world?
It is that thing that is in me. It keeps me awake at night. It gives me anxiety when I am away from it, and I left my entire family behind---New York unseen---to elevate my pursuit of a career in this thing I love called acting.

As you see how people are gravitating to you and rooting for you, is that validation that you are on the right path?
Absolutely. It is that type of energy that you draw from. As you continue to go further you hope to build on that community and get a larger base of fans.

Tell us about what it was like being  a part of the new movie WOMAN THOU ART LOOSED: On The 7th Day with stars like Blair Underwood and Pam Greer?
On The 7th Day is about a family dealing with their daughter being kidnapped and all that happens in this seven-day period. It's a really good, tense thriller. For me it was a master class every day. To be with an icon--THE Pam Greer---is totally humbling. I got a chance to talk with the other actors and learn from their journey, but when we took our marks we were all equals. This film will bring attention to the growing epidemic of kidnappings in the African-American community. T. D. Jakes' message of faith, forgiveness, family and redemption are sprinkled throughout the film. I believe people will get a lot out of it that they can take with them.

People are always having to deal with challenges and struggles when they are pursuing their dreams. Can you give some advice on how to not let the lows get you down?
If you do not know what lows are, how can you know what are highs? Lows are a part of it. So, don't look at it as lows. Look at it as a period of transition, a moment of pause to redefine, improve, reflect, and redirect.

Thanks for your time, Nicoye. How can your fans keep in contact with you online?
Please follow me on Facebook and my website http://www.nicoyebanks.com/.

There is seemingly no end to what Nicoye Banks can achieve. With his continued focus, drive and determination, he is destined to be on the minds of many as his career continues to blossom. May we all get to a place in our lives where we feel that secure in our own skin and the road that is our destiny.

To You, From Me

When we first announced the formation of the Model Citizens issue of Conversations Magazine I wasn't sure what the response would be. After all, would readers see the need of such a publication that highlighted those who are not just models professionally but setting an example for the world in other ways? The answer has been a resounding YES!

Like its monthly counterpart Conversations Magazine, Model Citizens includes interviews with movers and shakers from around the world as well as examples of individuals doing amazing things with their lives. In this issue you will be able to see profiles of those just like you that are using their skills to do amazing things.

My hope is that you will be inspired by those you read about and see the connective tissue that unites you to them. I also hope you will find ways to not only enjoy a purpose-driven life yourself but share with others how they can benefit from one as well.

Have someone you would like to see profiled in an upcoming issue or in our online features? Feel free to contact me at cawebb4@juno.com with MODEL CITIZENS in the subject line.

Until next time, happy reading!




Cyrus Webb, Editor-In-Chief
Conversations Magazine/Conversations Model Citizens Magazine/Conversations with Music Magazine

Caitlin O'Connor: Showcasing Beauty From the Inside Out

by Cyrus Webb

If there is someone who completely embodies the message and mission of Conversations Model Citizens Magazine it is Caitlin O'Connor. As an actress, model and television personality she has shown that she is not only a force to be reckoned with but someone that understands and appreciates the power of her gifts.


Already in her career Caitlin has starred as a series regular on the MTV show 'Chelsea Settles' as well as guest spots on HBO's 'Entourage'. Readers of worldwide publications like 'Sports Illustrated,' 'FHM', and 'Maxim' have gotten to know her, and this is only the beginning. No wonder in high school she was voted "Most Likely to Become Famous!"

When I got a chance to interview O'Connor it was an opportunity for me to share some of what readers might not know about her: the motivation, how she deals with success and more importantly how she is using her position to bring attention to causes that matter to her.

CAITLIN O'CONNOR ON THE SUCCESS:

At 17 Caitlin just wanted to be a model. That evolved into her wanting to be a tv host and then later an actress. Now she is seen as a triple threat with serious talent. How has it been to live this life? "It's been a whirlwind. I have always had a love of the camera. Because of that I knew that anything dealing with entertainment is something that I wanted to pursuit."

CAITLIN O'CONNOR ON BEING MORE THAN A PRETTY FACE:
She is so much more than her looks. "That was always something that I wanted my fans and friends to know. Girls are always perceived ---especially blonde girls---as stupid. I wanted to break that boundary and work past that."

CAITLIN O'CONNOR ON BEING AN INSPIRATION FOR OTHERS:
"That's something that I always wanted to happen, and it has all throughout my life. When I was a cheerleader I had girls come up to me and say 'I want to be a cheerleader just like you when I grow up.' Today aspiring models do the same. That's why I make sure I take out the time to offer them whatever advice I can to help them move forward."

CAITLIN O'CONNOR ON FAMILY,FRIENDS:
"It's been amazing to have a backbone like my parents and friends. It definitely helps to go further in my career and stay focused and grounded. There's nothing like that strength and support."

CAITLIN O'CONNOR ON HER LIFE'S MESSAGE:
"When people think of me I want them to think of someone who is classy, gives back and does something for humanity. I came from the smallest town...We're all hard workers. I took that notion of being a hard worker and applied it to everything I do. I believe in pursuing something until you can't pursue it anymore. I hope I inspire others to do the same."

Caitlin O'Connor and what she has achieved should remind us all of this simple truth: It's not about where you come from. It's what you apply yourself to be that matters. She is doing it not just for herself but for the causes she supports as well. One of those is Generosity Water. They are an organization that helps build clean water wells for villages around the world that are in need. Find out more about them at www.generositywater.org.

Stay in contact with Caitlin through Twitter at www.twitter.com/caitlin_oconnor, her Facebook Fan Page as well as her website www.caitlinoconnor.tv.

Recording Artist Belle Rivera: The Woman She Is, Not the Woman You Want Her To Be

by Cyrus Webb

I believe we all know what it's like to have what others want for us forced on us, trying to push us into a direction or a box that is not the right fit for who we are. Some give into the pressure, believing that maybe it will lead to where they want to go.

That is not the kind of person recording artist Belle Rivera is. When I caught up with her recently in fact she was promoting her new single WHO YOU ARE, a song that reminds us all of the importance of dancing to the beat of your own drum.

Belle has been a guest on Conversations LIVE radio show before, but this last time we had a chance to chat I really wanted her to share how she got to a place in her life where she could live her own life unafraid.

We started off by talking about the new single WHO YOU ARE and what it's been like to hear the feedback. "It's a really great and positive response I've been getting," she told me on the air. "It inspires me to write more. The inspiration has just been coming."

Staying with the theme of the single I asked Belle how she had gotten to a point in her life where she could let who she was shine through. "I feel like as a person I've grown up," she explained. "It's a work in progress. I'm not perfect. I do want to model myself as the woman I am and not the woman people might think I am or assume I am. I want to reflect that in my music. I really feel like I try to be as genuine as I can using my own personal experiences for my writing."

Being so true to yourself and knowing your limitations is not always easy, which Belle admits. "I definitely feel like it's a catch 22," she revealed. "When you have your morals and values It's harder because you're spending your time defending that." At the end of the day, though, she finds the courage to stick to her guns. "Because I'm comfortable with myself it reflects in everything that I do. When I sit back and relax I can say this was me. It wasn't influenced by anyone else."

So how did she get to this place where music was the vehicle in which she could use to speak to all of us? As before when we had talked Belle shared with our radio listeners that the reason she even began writing was when her grandmother passed. Belle was just four at the time. "After that it's a way to keep that happiness and love she gave to me alive," she says. "The experiences I've gone through shows in my music. Everything is an inspiration for me."

Among the things that do inspire the talented singer/songwriter are her friends. Belle told me that they really help to keep her grounded. "It's the best feeling in the whole world," she told me when I asked about what it was like to share this experience with them. "It feels good to have those who understand who I am as a person. I don't have to pretend or worry about being judged." She then talked about the importance of not isolating yourself along the journey. "We all need each other," she said. "It's a good thing to support each other in a positive way."

For those who can't be with Belle Rivera in person the internet has definitely afforded you a way to say in touch. "I feel like the medium is a big help in my career," says Belle. "The internet is such an easy way to get yourself out there and meet other people and see how they see the industry. Without it a lot of artist wouldn't even be heard."

Belle is not just sharing herself in music. She is also using the lessons she has learned to help others understand what it takes to make it in the industry and in pursuing any goals in life. "I feel as if success comes from being yourself. At the end of the day you can be at the highest peak of your dream, and if you're not yourself it doesn't matter. See me as a person first and get to know me. I take myself seriously but not everything should be taken so seriously.

Her closing advice for all of you: "If your heart is in it, go for it! To follow your dreams is about going out and doing something about it."

Stay in contact with Belle Rivera and support her music by finding her on www.reverbnation.com/bellerivera.

Celebrity Hair Stylist Dr. Boogie: Delivering the Prescription For Happiness

by Cyrus Webb

In just few short years Dr. Boogie has become one of the most recognizable and sought-after celebrity hair stylist in the business. I first heard of him and saw his skills when he appeared on Bravo's hit show SHEAR GENIUS, and I knew at that time he was going to be someone to watch.

I wasn't wrong.

Since then he has gone on to work with the likes of Kimora Lee Simmons, Lisa Raye, Fantasia, Debbie Allen, Raven Symone, Taraji P. Henson and a host of others. You've seen him on E! and the Style Network as well as BET's "Spring Bling Hair and Make Up Show,” and “ My Black Is Beautiful”. It is no wonder he was recognized by Time Magazine as one of their most Influential People in the World.

When I caught up with Dr. Boogie he was fresh off his new work on NBC's FASHION STAR, a show that was not only a hit but gave him another audience to wow and impress with his talent. One thing that comes across from him right away is that though he might be in Hollywood, he's definitely NOT Hollywood. Dr. Boogie sees the opportunities he has been given as ways of bringing out the best of others, sharing the happiness he feels by doing the work with his clients.

 "I must say it's a dream come true," he told me when I asked what it was like to showcase his skills. "It's a passion that I've always had. To live it and make it happen is kind of surreal but exciting."

For Dr. Boogie this is not just about something for him. He enjoys making others feel good, and he has felt that way since the very beginning. "I knew it was something that I wanted to when I was a young child." He told me that by helping beautify others he was able to "make them feel good when they might not be in a good situation." He then added: "I saw the power in it, and I took what I was doing and moved forward with it."

That moving forward has included him building the Dr. Boogie brand, including hair care products and allowing his love for what he does to motivate him. "I started studying the business of show business," he told me. "It is my passion and drive that has led me to here."

What is his own prescription for keeping things fresh and exciting? "I spend 2 or 3 hours everyday working on my brand," he told me. "You will be amazed how putting in that time will make your dreams come true."

There is also the importance of being true to who you are and what you do. " I keep true to my brand and what I stand for and that's when things come to you," Dr. Boogie explained. "I love to motivate others and show them that everything is possible. I like for people to think about beauty and feeling good about themselves. that is the prescription for happiness."

Find out everything about Dr. Boogie and his upcoming projects by visiting www.boogiesecrets.com.

Supermodel Kim Alexis: Giving the World Something to Live For

As a Supermodel Kim Alexis has graced the covers of hundreds of magazines and been the epitome of the life that many would die for. Today she is advocating for causes that matter to her and just this year she (along with co-author Mindy Starns Clark) released her debut novel BEAUTY TO DIE FOR. In short, Kim has been able to make a name for herself in one area but diversifying her brand along the way.

Recently the Supermodel turned author stopped by Conversations LIVE radio show and talked with host Cyrus Webb about the journey and what it has been like for her walk a  new career path.

"I am a huge mystery reader," she told Webb, "so developing and putting all of that together was really interesting." Going back to how she got into the modeling business, Kim shared with the talk show host that it was something she never really saw herself doing.

"It wasn't a passion or goal of mine to enter the modeling world,: she explained. Being a swimmer and athletic, Kim says she was really more of a tomboy. Modeling started off as a way to make extra money to go to college." The rest, as they say, is history.

Kim Alexis sees being a Supermodel and the recognition that comes with it as a way to do something more with her life. "It's neat and interesting," she says. "The fun part is to encourage other women. My success is to encourage others. I want to give back. Women who write to me about health issues, body image issues, etc... if I can help others through the experiences that I've had then that's what makes me happy."

Through the main character Juliette Taylor the novel BEAUTY TO DIE FOR gives readers a look at what models go through in pursuing their careers but the effects of their decisions on them and those around them even after it's all over. "I was excited developing this character for others to see what the modeling world is really like," says Kim. "I liked how the character herself gives you a glimpse from a different perspective."

There are also valuable lessons that the character Juliette shares which Webb brought out in the discussion, one being the issue of faith. "KEEP YOUR EYES ON GOD AND YOU KNOW YOU CAN'T GO WRONG," Juliette says in the book. Kim agrees. "In order to be successful you really have to have an inner strength that keeps you going, keeps you on the same track. There are a lot of things that try to derail you, but you have to jump back anytime you get off the road that leads to your purpose in life."

As part of her own mission Kim is using her time giving back to organizations she believes in and sharing through example what is possible for all of us, regardless of our professions.

Get BEAUTY TO DIE FOR at your favorite bookstore and online outlet. Keep up with Kim Alexis and what's next for her at www.kimalexis.com.

(Poem) "I Will Always Remember" by Lucian A. Sperta

I Will Always Remember

I will always remember grey granite cold stone, name engraved-touching coldness with my fingers as I rub through an eternity of memories.

I will always remember behind black thick shades, fearing who will appear at this dead zone. A woman is weeping speaking into the wind placing a cross on her ownership of death and bones.

I will always remember grey clouds, dead trees, green grass, and my breath in the wind. There was St. Anthony crooked in the ground not making any sound. I said my final good-bye, An American flag rattling in the wind; I stood there to silence all of the sin.

I will always remember the cars driving in with people carrying flowers wondering about my final hours. A thorn   forever by my side, I never really said a final good bye. The not wanting to leave- feet glued to the ground, I could not turn around. The promises of no return…walking backwards, the fear of letting you go-I had to though.

I will always remember telling you I’m not afraid- I’m not to blame, while a bird sings on this dreary day. Here I stand looking at your name that was engraved so long ago. I’ve been scared all alone. A weed popping above your mound a yellow flower blooming, and the memory of your words I’ve let go of yesterday of old.

I will always remember how it all came to an end.

Three gun shots and the pedophile was dead.

I was robbed from the chance to end this horror instead.

I was forced into this silence again.

The Catholic confession, the obsession, the drive to see you-finding you silent again, the silver picture frame with my words of confusion and despair could never repair the damage you left me with.

I will always remember to walk, to stay, afraid to go away.

How the fear of letting you go overwhelmed me so. I could not breathe, and I could not see, blinded by the years of my own misery and your pedophile dis-ease.

How your place seemed abandoned to me, I want to run to be in the warmth of the sun.

I will always remember what you’ve done. How I lived frozen as time moved on. A tear in my eye, the night before-I cried. I had to arrive with a final good-bye.

I salute you, I dishonor you. I will always remember with these farewells, the real you…I will no longer mourn you

You were a criminal running loose who held me by the neck with an emotional noose. Your murder released me.

Lucian A. Sperta
http://amazon.com/author/luciansperta

Poet Lucian A. Sperta: Sharing Without Shame

by Cyrus Webb

Then faced with trials and challenges in our lives we have the choice to either allow it to consume us or the experience to refine us. It's not an easy decision, but it is one that has lasting effects not just for us but those who learn of our journey.

Individuals like Lucian A. Sperta are making the right choice, and it is paying off in ways he couldn't even have imagined.

I was first introduced to the poet through Facebook, and it became obvious to me early on that he was not just a prolific writer but one who was using the power of the proverbial pen to not only help others but heal himself as well.

In an exclusive radio interview on Conversations LIVE he discussed the path to healing and the search for self that gives him courage to share his story without shame.

"It really started some 15 years ago," Lucian told me as we discussed when he realized the gift that was words. He discovered poetry and published it. "I saw there was a format for me to express my grief and anger," he explained. After publishing a great deal around 1996 the darkness of the past surrounded him, forcing him to turn inward. "It became a little overwhelming," he says, but this year he realized that what he had been given was larger than him. "This past January I decided to start sharing and speaking not just for me but others." It is that path that has kept him going.

Like many others Lucian knows what its like to be abused and humiliated. Because of the work he is doing to help others in their lives, he is sharing what is possible for them by revealing much about his own. "I spent a lifetime running from it, trying create an image that would move me away from my past," he told me. It wasn't that easy, though. "My past kept revisiting me in my work. I wasn't escaping, so I used my story with clients." By doing so he is helping them to appreciate what is possible in their lives. "I walked that journey, and I want them to know it is possible for them as well."

Having written several titles since he began to reveal himself through prose, Lucian has found not only a safe way to chronicle the experience but a form of liberation in the process. "Writing helped me," he explained. "It was my freedom. I grew up in fear, but writing didn't betray me."

Lucian is also using social media as a place to share his story and meet those who are also dealing with the darkness from their past. "For me it's been a great experience," he says. "I am able to use my words and my survival as an example. There are people who are struggling. I am here to show them that they can share without shame. Because of what we've been through there is a sense of connection there. A lot of people feel isolated because of their pain. I want them to know they are not alone."

Though he is brave in many respects there are still moments when being the face of survival is not an easy thing. Because of the abuse he suffered and the ways he would eventually attempt to dull the pain and the feelings of unworthiness, Lucian appreciates that someone has to step forward and let others know what is possible. "There is a lot of shame attached to it," he told me. "I knew that I had to put my face out there. I'm just as human as they are. I'm not just a half a person anymore." Sharing his story, he explains, "puts the whole person out there."

Like Lucian, we can all tap into our inner greatness and motivate others to do that as well. His faith has also been a great asset to him as it pertains to his gift. "I am still struggling with the gift part," he explained. "I pray to give me the words to help others. I reach deep into my heart and soul, and I want to be able to translate that into words." It is a part of his recovery and the healing. "I push myself. If I touch one person and can give them hope then I've done something."

Lucian's message for you is the same for himself: "Dream loudly. Pray softly. Listen deeply."

To find out more about his book online visit http://amazon.com/author/luciansperta. You can also find him on Facebook and Twitter under "Lucian A. Sperta".

TN Titan Alterraun Verner: Giving His All to the Gift

by Cyrus Webb

All of us have been given a gift. It's really up to us to recognize it, respect it and do all we can to use it as a tool to inspire others.

That is exactly what Alterraun Verner is doing. Many of you might have gotten to know him as a part of the TN Titans, but Verner is more than just a great football player. He is an individual that has not only worked hard all of his life but is using the rewards that have come his way to impact the lives of those around him.

Whether it is on the field or through his foundation he is allowing his life to serve as an example of what it means to give your all to the gift.

VERNER ON SPORTS BEING HIS VEHICLE: 
"I probably knew from a very young age that I was passionate about sports. I didn't know what direction or what sport my life would go in at first. I just always enjoyed getting out there and competing. " high school it became evident that football was really my calling."

By giving his best academically Verner was able to go to UCLA, which set the stage for his professional career. "This is really a true blessing," he told me during our interview. "I see this as an amazing ride, and I am loving every second of it."

VERNER ON THE GIFT:
"I think it is the gift and the way I treat it that definitely draws people to root for me. I show a lot of appreciation for it by the way I act on and off the field. They can use me as an example that they can do it for themselves in their own lives. I appreciate what I have. Nothing was given to me. I had to work for it. I know that if I don't do what I'm supposed to it can definitely be taken away."

VERNER ON DOUBT:
"I believe that doubt is normal. It's going to happen. I use those as opportunities to make me stronger as a person. It all goes back to believing in yourself and working hard. I know what I've done to get to where I've gotten so far. I made it here, and I'm going to keep on going. Nobody is going to push me harder than I push myself. I'm going to give my 100% effort. At the end of the day, no matter what the outcome, I am going to be satisfied because I did all that I could do."

VERNER ON THE EGO:
"It goes back to it being a gift. I don't see why you have to have a big head about it. Sometimes I forget who I am. Honestly. When people come up to me it is still sometimes a shock. This is just who I am and what I do."

During our conversation Verner shared with me an experience he had with two players when he was younger. One was not as all pleasant. The other was more than gracious. Both situations stayed with him and taught him a valuable lesson. He told me that when he thinks about the player who treated him with respect that he says to himself: "I want to be like that."

VERNER ON FAITH:
"Faith is such a big part of my everyday life. Just knowing that God has a plan for me I go out there on the field not really worried about anything. I know that whatever happens---win or lose---it's all part of the plan. I feel like when I'm in tune with God I'm performing a lot better. It gives me joy when someone sees that (faith) in me and seeks God out for himself."

No matter what your profession I know that something Alterraun Verner said resonates with you. It does for me. As he enjoys the success that is coming with his hard work, he is also proving that when you work hard and do your best that it pays off.

Stay in contact with Alterraun  at www.twitter.com/Alvern_1, www.facebook.com/alterraunverner or through his website http://alterraunverner.com/.

About Gina Roy-Opalec, Graphic Designer Behind This Issue's Cover

As a little girl, Gina Roy-Opalec’s prized collectible was a Calligraphy pen set. She was amazed at the beautiful letters she could create by simply manipulating the pens at different angles. Shortly after, Gina developed and is known for, by family and friends, her beautiful and unique penmanship style. This was the beginning of her artistic creativity. She then started taking art classes in junior high school, high school and in college, which lead her to enroll at Platt College, to specialize her craft, in graphic design.

Gina is a San Diego based Graphic Designer. She is a Packaging Designer, in Product Development for Infant Toy, with Infantino. Prior to Infantino, Gina was a Graphic Designer, Product Design and Managing Designer, Product Design, heading the Entertainment and Attractions Division for Fotoball USA and K2 Licensed Products (K2LP) for thirteen years. There, her clients included Disney, Busch Gardens, Universal Studios, Zoos - nationwide, Nickelodeon, Marvel, Warner Brothers, DC Comics, MLB, NFL and the NBA. At K2LP, Gina assisted the Creative Director and managed a creative team for products such as collectible pins and lanyards, as well as sport collectibles and toys.

Gina is very passionate about her career as a graphic designer. She loves the freedom to be artistic and create products that people will enjoy for years to come.

Gina has played an integral part in helping her sister, Zenaida Roy-Almario, with her dream of becoming an author and starting her company, BRAGN™ - Be Real And Great Now. Gina designed the book’s cover and interior layout, company logo and icon, as well as her press kit and other business marketing collateral. Zenaida says, “I really love my BRAGN™ peacock icon and logo! Gina’s ‘awesome left-handed talent’ brings life and existence to my visions, better than I dare to imagine them! I am blessed for having her, to create the pictures to my words and even more so, as my sister.”

Gina can be reached at: gina@berealandgreatnow.com.

Conversations' Model Citizen: Wilner Sainlot

Hometown: Haiti

Currently living in North Lauderdale, FL

Wilner in his own words: "I am an aspiring young model who`s willing to work hard to achieve his goal. One of the reason I want to become a professional model is because I believe modeling is a God-given talent. Moreover, I will have a greater opportunity to motivate and help the others who look up to me as a role model."

Wilner, how do you stay motivated as you puruse your goals and dreams? First, I would like to say none of us were born with knowledge; however, knowledge is not something limited when you are really committed to pursuit it. In addition, I stay motivated by inspiration,the key to my pride. Motivation is the way to my success. Determination is the strength to my wisdom and criticism. And most importantly God is the shield to my antagonist.

What is the best advice you have for others who are looking to follow their passion in life?

Believe in you, what you already have inside. Be able to work smarter than harder because everything you want to accomplish in life can never come so easy until you are willing to risk some facts on your own experience. If you failed today promise yourself that you will be victorious tomorrow. No matter how much others tell you that you won't make it, start your own story from scratches then be the author of your book tomorrow.


Wilner Sainlot can be reached by email at wilnerslot1@yahoo.com and on Facebook.

MODEL CITIZEN: Teresa Kain

Model Citizen: Teresa Kain

Hometown: Eyota, MN

Teresa's in her own words: If one takes risk...there is a chance one may fail....if one never takes risk, one ALWAYS FAILS.

I am motivated to stay fit due to the fact I am a Registered Nurse that struggled with weight and had gestational diabetes. Fourteen yrs ago I began Personal Training originally to educate myself regarding health and fitness, leading to my desire to switch from nursing to an 'alternative field of nursing' working in wellness. Being personal trainer has me working with clients daily regarding their fitness and health, which keeps me from losing sight of that for myself. Staying fit has been about being healthy with a great side affect of looking better (for my age!), keeping 'normal weight' and continuing to work as a model/talent here in Minneapolis.
I came upon modeling by accident and now consult with others that desire a model/acting career along with using my medical background to work as a personal trainer focusing on health and fitness daily. My advice to others is to surround themselves with supportive friends and to learn who and what you are about. Modeling is complex and keeping a healthy attitude and outlook is extremely important as it is easy to be distracted by outside influences, the more grounded you are as a person the more successful you will be at anything. We can do and be anything we choose, you first have to know who you are to know what you want to BE... you have to have a clear understanding of what you like, need and want in order to know what your dream is.

MODEL CITIZEN: Aaron Ballard

MODEL CITIZEN: Aaron Ballard



Hometown: Columbus / Georgia

How do you stay motivated and encouraged as your pursue your goals and dreams? I stay motivated mainly because I found myself. After all the hard and down times, you eventually stand tall and proud and know more about yourself and what you want out of life. I have won some physical looks contest and that alone was a confidence booster. Everyone has their own insecurities, once you can take control over them and no longer let them run your life you become happy and confident in your self. I wake up know who I am and how much of a great loving person I am and I keep my dreams right in front of me leading the way to the life I want to create for myself. I keep my friends close for emotional support. I pray that God leads me in the direction I need to go not the one I think or want to take because it may be an easier route. I have learned to slow down a bit and take time to get to know me and take care of me, once I did that I know how to be all that I can for not only myself but others around me.

What advice do you have for others when it comes to pursuing their own goals in life? For anyone wanting to pursue their dreams as odd as it may seem to say, first you have to stop dreaming and start doing. Get out there and make what you want happen. Call on others loved ones, friends, colleagues, co-workers, and anyone you know in the industry you are wanting to pursue. You must know yourself first, you must know what you really desire and that your positive you will be happy with your decisions. All things in life are not simple nor easy, following your dreams is one of those. It may be a hard, expensive, and winding road but the end outcome of your complete happiness is all worth the effort. Make sure you keep the ones that got you to where to get in life still in your life. Don't let money or promises tare you away from your family and friends. It's your life and its time to take control of where you want it to go.

MODEL CITIZEN: Sophia Gababe

Model Citizen: Sophia Gababe

United Kingdom

How do you stay inspired when it comes to following your dreams in life?
I stay focused and take each day as it comes.

What advice do you have for others who are looking to following their dreams?
First of all, it's very easy to have dreams, but not take steps toward them. Your hardest steps are the first ones. You have to dream big, but you have to take the steps. first of all Make a list of your goals and the steps you have to take. Hold strong to whatever comes your way, and don't listen to whoever tells you you can't. A lot of times it's about imaginary earplugs:-) nothing is for free and nothing comes easily you have to work hard for it.

MODEL CITIZEN: Mikhail Tank

Mikhail Tank
Hometown: Los Angeles, CA & St. Petersburg, Russia

How do you stay motivated as you pursue your goals and dreams?
I try not to pay attention to the rejection, to the hype or the hip, I listen to my soul and instinct.

What advice do you have for someone who has not been successful in finding the way to their passion in life?
In my opinion, perfection leads to destruction. Just Begin without trying to be perfect and once you do, respect your creation and share it, caring none if others listen.
Also you can go to my website www.MikhailTank.com and watch a free documentary, titled The Importance of Creativity

Conversations Magazine Presents Its "Model Citizens"

Conversations Magazine Presents Its "Model Citizens"

Good role models are hard to find, especially when you are talking about those who are there to show you what is possible with hard work and dedication. For Conversations Media Group and our partners discovering your best self is one of our main goals, and recognizing those that are doing just that became the focus of this special edition of Conversations Magazine. (seen here is Nahid Samandari of Valley Village, CA)

What is our definition of a Model Citizen? It's an individual who is working against all odds to pursue their dreams and are using their journey to encourage and inspire others. With Conversations' new publication and features you will find individuals of all ages, shapes and colors who are following their goals and being rewarded.

I saw the addition of "Model Citizens" as a way for us to showcase ordinary individuals who are pursuing extraordinary paths. I think it's important that anyone, regardless of where they are from or what they look like, can find someone they can relate to that speaks to what they can do themselves.

That is the whole purpose of "Model Citizens". Once it was announced that it would be featuring such individuals so many showed interested in the Model Citizen feature that I decided to devote a special bi-monthly publication to individuals from different backgrounds that are moving forward with their dreams and offering advice for others who want to do the same. Included in those recognized are celebrated recording artists, actors, models and those on the rise. It's truly a reflection of the world that Conversations believes we want and can be attained.

As a thank you to our yearly subscribers of Conversations Magazine, this first issue of Model Citizens is being sent to you at no charge. Future issues can be ordered by visiting www.conversationsmodelcitizens.com. What I hope comes from this is that we are able to look at our place in the world a little differently, and realize the power each of us has to make a difference.

Interested in being featured in Conversations Magazine or want to share your thoughts about our Model Citizens? As always I would love to hear from you. Contact me at cawebb4@juno.com or 601.896.5616.

Conversations' Model Citizen: Tanya Wright

Tanya Wright has garnered fans for years in her roles on The Cosby Show, 24, E.R. and now True Blood, but in 2011 she has added new dimensions to her brand as a writer and director. Conversations LIVE Radio talked with her as she was preparing for the release of her movie Butterfly Rising, and the discussion gave a glimpse into what inspire the young creative and her motivations.

Wright describes herself as a shy little girl but says that her entrance into the entertainment industry has been an evolution that is 'weird and staccato.' Along the journey she has realized that no matter what has brought attention to a project she is attached to, it is up to her to "stay in the room," letting her talents shine through.

When it comes to discussing going from television and movies to writing a book and directing a movie, Wright says it really wasn't much of a stretch. "You graduate from acting to writing," she says, "and directing is a natural progression." Butterfly Rising (the book and the movie) showcases the butterfly as the symbol for change. "Change is something you can't get away from," Wright says. "It's best to just embrace it."

Regardless of what you are doing professionally, this entrepreneur knows that you can't be your best without reaching outside of yourself. "Listen to everything," she says. "Even if you can't use everything, have more than one voice around you." When speaking about her advice for others who want to pursue their passion, she says this: "Be willing to make the sacrifices and be up to the challenges."

As someone who has remained relevant in a changing industry, any advice from Tanya Wright is definitely worth listening to. Find out more information about her book and movie by visiting www.butterflyrisingthemovie.com.

Model Citizen's Cover Girl: Nahid Samandari

by Cyrus Webb

Her very life is prof positive of what can be accomplished with hard work and dedication. Born in Tehran, Nahid Samandari has had to make tough choices in order to have a better life for not only herself but her six children as well.

The fifty-seven (57) year old has lived in the United States since Feb. 1989, and she has taken advantage of every opportunity possible to pursue her love of modeling and acting. 

Conversations Magazine learned of Nahid in the summer of 2011, and we knew that we had to showcase not only her beauty but amazing life story as well.

Nahid, first of all thank you for allowing Conversations Magazine to have this opportunity. One thing that is apparent when people see you in pictures is not just your beauty but the confidence you have. Where does your confidence come from?

Thank you, Cyrus, for wanting to talk with me. I think that, for me, confidence is something I have always had. I can honestly say that I have never felt lonely in my life. When people stay lonely and they isolate themselves the confidence goes away. We face so many different attitudes and ideas. I respect that, but you have to know who you are. I love to learn, and that is what I feel is part of being a student on the earth. We are forever learning.

Confidence is one thing but staying inspired and motivated is another. What keeps you motivated as you pursue your dreams?

What keeps me motivated in life to pursue my dreams is that I will make a great change in other people's lives and help them more when I am successful in the future. 

You are obviously a beautiful woman, Nahid. How important is it for you to be just as appealing on the inside as you are perceived on the outside?

I believe beauty comes from the inside. That's where it all starts. If you don't work on your goal things are not going to pay off for themselves. The way you look is not the important thing. What's important is what you are doing with your life and what you have to give. 

You mentioned earlier about helping others through your success. Why has it been important for you to support other people and to help others?

Because I believe we are on the earth to help others in the world. We all go through hardships, but it can be made easier when we are looking out for others other than myself. That's why I live my life in a way so that I can be of assistance to others. 

I talk alot with people about their idea of success. What does success mean for you?

Success is whatever your goal in life is. Success is what you want to do and what result you want to get. It can be about how you raise your kid, doing the best you can in a relationship, communication or whatever you want to do well.

Thank you again, Nahid, for your time. It goes without saying that I wish you nothing but continued success and blessings. Last question: What advice do you have for others who are also looking to be successful following their passion?

I would tell them to never let go of their dreams and work hard in order to accomplish their aspirations. If they do that then in time their hard work will pay off, and their dreams will be sure to come true.

You can stay in contact with Nahid and her amazing work at www.nahidsamandari.com. 

Model Citizen: Tripp Ivey

Model Citizen: Tripp Ivey

Hometown: Birmingham, AL

How do you stay inspired when it comes to following your dreams in life?
Well for most people it is long hard path to go down if you chase your dreams.I stay inspired by knowing I will make it. By knowing I will succeed. I stay inspired by knowing no dream is too big. Key word there? Knowing, never doubt yourself, doubt is the seed to mans downfall. My family and friends inspire me further. I want to be able to help all these people that have already helped me. That's what inspires me."

What advice do you have for others who are looking to following their dreams?
Never give up and never have any doubt in yourself. When you have followed a dream to the ends of the world, follow it farther. Keep in mind that these facts are only true, if you truly believe in what you do."

MODEL CITIZEN: Cheyenne Bush

* Model Citizen: Cheyenne Bush

* Sealy, TX 77474

Interests: Cheyenne is into some sports, loves to ride horses, barrel race, sing and act. She loves to be around people and is very animated.

Cheyenne in her own words: "Why I decided on modeling as a profession? I decided on modeling as a profession because like to pose and be in front of the camera. People have so much to say and pictures can capture the things you cannot say verbally. When I look back at my photos I see someone else. I try to make it as though that person is someone I would want to know. Modeling is fun and I get to have fun with it."

* How do you stay inspired as you follow your dreams?
My Mom and America's Next Top Model (ANTM), Tyra Banks, because my mom tells me I can do anything and ANTM, Tyra inspires me and shows me it can be hard but not to give up. I really like how Tyra points out that we all have differences and those differences are what makes us unique. Everyone of us can make a difference and reach our goals and dreams. I hope someday to get to meet Tyra and thank her for the inspiration she has given me.

* What advice would you have for others when it comes to their dreams?
When people say you can't do something, block them out because you can do it! You should try to keep friends and family that believe in you around all of the time so you don't ever feel down about it and always keep your hopes up.

Model Citizen: Jared Drennan

Model Citizen: Jared Drennan

Hometown: Magee, MS

How do you stay inspired when it comes to following your dreams in life?

I stay Inspired by playing music on my guitar, singing my favorite songs and never letting anything get to me. I always think about how much my life would change when I become famous, and I keep that love in my heart.

What advice do you have for others who are looking to following their dreams?

For anyone that wants to follow there dreams no matter how big or small they can always be accomplished by following your heart and staying happy and keeping there dream alive in there hearts no matter what it may be. Anybody can do anything.

MODEL CITIZEN: Kevin Saccucci

Model Citizen: Kevin Saccucci

Hometown: Alberta, Canada

How do you stay inspired when it comes to following your dreams in life?I stay inspired by reminding myself that I am doing what I love. I am so blessed to have this opportunity in my life. As well as having a very strong support system of family and friends to pick me up when I fall down.

What advice do you have for others who are looking to following their dreams?My advice to others is not to give up on what you love. Don't let anyone or anything get in your way. Don't be afraid of taking  a risk because with great risk comes great success. If you have faith in yourself you will succeed. 

Photos taken by : Diane Herro & Samantha Scharf.

MODEL CITIZEN: Lea Bella

Model Citizen: Lea Bella

Hometown: Phoenix, AZ

Current: Boca Raton, FL

Lea in her own words: "It's easy staying motivated in South Florida for a model/actress/spokes model like myself. There is so much activity here for work that it is a constant day to day process of castings calls for all kinds of venues. I come from a long line of entrepreneurs I think working hard believing in myself and watching the results has been motivation enough for me.

"For those that are wanting to get into the industry of any kind of entertainment or modeling you have to inspire yourself. In the end it is you who makes decisions good for bad and you have to live with them. It is important to surround yourself with upbeat individuals and weed out the nay sayers who do not believe in your dreams or who seem to purposely try to steer you away from your dreams. I believe that if God put a desire that is so strong in your heart that it gets you up early and keeps you up late. Preparing, practicing, networking then He will make a way where there seems to be no way."

Conversations' Model Citizen: Enrico Delves

Though London is his home, the talent of recording artist Enrico Delves is definitely crossing geographical borders and even those created by various genres. There seems to be no limit to his abilities, and no matter how humble he is about the international buzz he has created, Enrico is on the verge of making a permanent mark for himself in music.
Conversations Magazine first became aware of him through his rendition of Lady Gaga's "Bad Romance" on Youtube. In that performance he showed off his range and gift for making any song his own. Now Enrico is preparing for the release of his own EP, and is using his popularity online to ensure that everyone knows about it.
In this interview, he talks about his beginnings, what separates him from other talent in music and how social networking and other online avenues are aiding in his dreams coming through.
This is our conversation.
Enrico, thank you for talking with Conversations Magazine. Before we get into what you are working on now, I want to talk about how you got here. When did you realize that music was something you were interested in?

I have been singing since I was 10, but only realised that music was something I wanted to get deeper into when I hit reached aged 14 or 15. I did my first performance and although I had horrific nerves, the adrenalin I got from doing something I loved has kept me engaged.

When you look back on the time you have been singing and producing music, does it surprise you the effect your voice has on others?

It really is a shocking thing to know that people enjoy listening to me. I love music so much, and I am pleased to know that people like what I do.

I found out about you through Twitter when you were promoting your performance of Lady Gaga's "Bad Romance". How have social networking tools help you in getting more exposure?

I think besides from performing, all social networking sites drastically boosts anybody's exposure. Online promotion is really effective because you can target any market worldwide without leaving your house (laughs). I hate technology but realized I have to use it wisely to create a fan base. I would say that twitter is an amazing site to talk to people and get a buzz circulating your name so quickly if you use it properly.

Success is measured by people in different ways. What is success for you?

I consider success as a goal that is reached. I believe if we set targets and achieve them can be the most rewarding success. But money does sometimes help. (laughs)

It's not easy to get noticed sometimes in the entertainment business. What are you doing to set yourself apart?

My songwriting and voice sets me apart from a lot of artists. I believe my bold song concepts and vocal range creates something dynamic and reflects old school soul, with a contemporary twist that makes it relevant for the present time in music.

Motivation is also important. How do you stay encouraged when it seems as though your goals are not met as quickly as you would like?

Firstly, I pray for courage and wisdom. I tend to watch documentaries about the rise of musicians for inspiration and reassurance, hard work does eventually get you to where you want to be---as cheesy as that sounds. (laughs)

Thanks again for the time, Enrico. If our readers want to find out more information about you, where would you suggest they go online?

I can be reached at www.youtube.com/eme10d1c, www.twitter.com/enricodelves, on Myspace and Facebook.